Why it gets stuck
Often a decision won't move not because information is missing, but because there's an inner conflict between what you 'should' do and what you actually want.
Pros-and-cons lists don't help here — they're about logic, while the stuckness is about feeling.
What's underneath
Sometimes the inability to decide hides a fear of disappointing someone, losing a part of yourself, or repeating someone else's script.
When that becomes visible, the choice often stops feeling so frightening.
Where to start
It helps to separate 'what I should choose' from 'what I want' — and give space to the second.
In a calm space it's easier to hear your own decision, not only others' expectations.